Many people have reached a stage where separation/divorce is the only option they see.
That's fine. It is also a valid solution.
But before taking that decision, use this situation that has come in your life to heal yourself.
If you just leave this relationship and move to next one (or not move) still the wounds created will haunt you.
So heal first.
Then communicate your expectations and boundaries to your partner from that state of mind.
If they understand, then good. You continue.
If they don't, then great. You separate.
Where is the loss in this deal?
So, perhaps the question you have in mind now is, "how to heal?"
To answer that question, you need to take a step back and first identify the reasons that are keeping you stuck and confused.
Remember, if you are unable to decide, then it is an indication that you need to do more homework on gaining more clarity!
If you are unclear about where you are stuck, then consider these options...
1️⃣ Watch past conversations on various topics like Toxic Relationships, Narcissism, Gaslighting, Abuse, Domestic Violence, Insecure Attachment Styles, Unhealthy Boundaries, Grief, Cheating and so on.
There are 40+ videos. See what you resonate with and watch them to gain more clarity about your situation.
Give yourself 1 week and watch as many videos as you can. These are mostly audios so that you can listen to them while walking or working in household chores, etc.
This is our channel: https://youtube.com/channel/UCpG1_yLh3jr-XcY_KJgy3hA
2️⃣ If you don't have the time and energy to gain clarity on your own by watching those videos, then book a Clarity Call with us from here: https://pages.razorpay.com/CoachingClarityCall
If you are clear about where you are stuck, then consider these options...
1️⃣ Start your DIY Healing Journey by subscribing to our eLearning Journeys Library from here: https://www.anamify.com/learning-journeys
2️⃣ If you want 1:1 coaching, then book our time from here: https://pages.razorpay.com/CoachingClarityCall
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