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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Updated: Apr 16

Many people have reached a stage where separation/divorce is the only option they see.

That's fine. It is also a valid solution.

But before taking that decision, use this situation that has come in your life to heal yourself.

If you just leave this relationship and move to next one (or not move) still the wounds created will haunt you.

So heal first.

Empower yourself.

Then communicate your expectations and boundaries to your partner from that state of mind.

If they understand, then good. You continue.

If they don't, then great. You separate.

Where is the loss in this deal?

So, perhaps the question you have in mind now is, "how to heal?"

To answer that question, you need to take a step back and first identify the reasons that are keeping you stuck and confused.

Remember, if you are unable to decide, then it is an indication that you need to do more homework on gaining more clarity!

If you are unclear about where you are stuck, then perhaps you can join our Divorce Support Group to gain more clarity.

I hope this gives you some direction!

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