Updated: Aug 10
What I'm about to say, is not for everyone.
But it could be for you.
For 20+ years I have been working as a Life Coach and Relationship Coach. From the experience of all those years, I discovered that most of my clients didn't actually needed "a solution" from me (although that's what they thought).
Now the question is, why they thought that? Because they were facing a certain challenge and they didn't know HOW to move forward. So, they thought that I might give them a different idea or perspective that they haven't tried yet.
As we talked, I realised that it's not the lack of ideas that is keeping them stuck, it is their own resistance and hesitation.
When I realised that, my approach changed totally with them. I was no longer a guide. I was a Janitor.
My job was not to show them the path anymore. My job was to clean it with them.
Path was already there.
It was not clean and walkable.
This is what I do when I do Laser Coaching with a client on one-on-one basis. Now I have converted this into DIY (Do-it-yourself) style Coaching; in the form of eLearning Journeys.