Our Expression of Interest Success Rate for Conscious Matchmaking Service is only 5%
Let me give you a breakdown of this statistics to explain this better...
10% Expressions of Interest are submitted by those who are separated but haven't filed divorced yet.
So, they get rejected right away.
10% Expressions of Interest are submitted by those who are extremely time poor.
They are already overwhelmed with personal and professional responsibilities. They just don't have the bandwidth for themselves also. They don't even have time to look after themselves or their health. They will struggle to find time to participate in this process and definitely struggle to find time for their partner after marriage. So, they also get rejected.
20% Expressions of Interest are submitted by those who are struggling financially.
They are not in a financial state to pay the fees for this service. Given the kind of profiles we have, both, men and women, in our database are well educated and well established in their profession. They don't expect their future partner to take care of them financially but expect their future partner to be financially stable enough to at least support themselves. And therefore, we disqualify such applications also.
50% Expressions of Interest are from people who don't even see, notice or acknowledge their Emotional Immaturity.
The attitude of such people in their application is like this:
I'm already Emotionally Mature. I don't understand the relevance of the process. Just find me matches.
I've done lots of healing work already. I don't need to prove anything to anyone. Just find me matches.
I'm paying for this service. Why I need to do work also? Just do your job and find me matches.
Past is past. I don't want to talk about it. I learnt from it and I'm Emotionally Mature now. Let's not discuss all that and only focus on finding matches for me.
I'm not answerable to anyone. I've moved on and I'm ready for a life partner. So, let's just focus on that.
I'm the victim. My ex was a narcissist. I don't understand why I need to do any self work. I just need a better partner.
I just want a person from my community or someone who can take care of my parents or kids
We disqualify all such applications.
You tell me if we are doing anything wrong?
Would you like us to match you against any of these people even if they are
physically attractive
well educated
financially sound
from your city only
veg/non-veg as per your liking
Would you compromise on the Emotional Maturity of a person for Looks, Money, Location, Food preference, Language, etc.?
And after all this filtering, last 10% applications are accepted for further evaluation.
I personally take the Qualifying Call to assess these people and I reject almost 50% applications for various factors based on my 22 years of experience in the field of Psychology, Human Behavior and Relation Coaching, which tells me that
this person is hiding something
this person is lying
this person lacks congruency
this person prefers to stay behind their masks
this person has emotional wounds but they prefer to stay in denial
this person only sees faults in others and prefer to feel like a victim
this person has trust or commitment issues but they don't even want to acknowledge them
this person is not that Emotionally Mature as they think they are and they are not open to look into it also
this person is non-coachable
So, ultimately the cream (5%) is invited to register for this service.
Are you starting to appreciate the value of this process and filtering we do to ensure you don't waste your time with those 95% people we rejected?
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